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How to Be a Leader: Unlock Success in Life & Relationships

What if I told there was just one thing you needed to focus on to improve your overall life and relationships? You have to learn how to be a leader!

It’s something that Gandhi, Nelson Mandela and Martin Luther King all have in common and it’s basically the 80/20 of attraction...

How to Be a Leader: Unlock Success in Life & Relationships

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Why Leadership is Attractive to Women

There’s this one thing to focus on that will give you the most bang for your buck. Basically the closest thing to a magic pill and I call it the King Complex, named after Martin Luther King.

Because you probably don’t want to go up to a woman, like a social robot giving her some backhanded insult about her nails… Or "memorize" ridiculous pickup lines or wear outlandish pea-cocking outfits.

Many guys run around in circles doing ridiculous things to attract women, believe me I’ve been there too, until they come to us and we set them straight and teach them how to embody the King Complex that I’m about to share with you, to attract, date and even marry the women of their dreams.

Back in 2010, a story known as the 'Chilean Mining Accident' blew up news stations around the globe.

After it was over, and the aftermath was broadcasted to the world, I was reminded of a very powerful lesson about becoming the kind of man that women can’t ignore.

So get this…

On August 5th, 2010, a group of Chilean miners experienced their worst nightmare. The cave collapsed without warning and they were trapped 700 meters underground.

(That’s the same length as 6 football fields straight down.)

The workers had 700,000 tons of rock standing between them and the entrance. Add to that, their supplies and oxygen were running out.

Everyone was certain that all of those men would not make it out alive.

But the thirty-three trapped miners had one glimmer of hope down there. His name was Luis Urzua.

Described as a born leader, the fifty-four-year-old was the shift commander at the time of the collapse. 

Using all of his wits, resourcefulness, and leadership, Luiz was able to secure all of the men in a secure "refuge" beneath all the debris.

He then organized their resources like food, water, and medical supplies. What was only meant to be a forty-eight hour supply was stretched out to two weeks. They drank tiny sips of milk and took little bites of tuna.

Under his direction, his men also used a bulldozer to open a natural water deposit for drinking.

But he did more…

He took three men with him to scout the tunnels. From there, he was able to make a detailed map of the area. This helped him coordinate with the rescue effort above ground.

Throughout this whole situation, Luis instilled in his men to accept their fate and situation so they could do what was necessary to survive.

When the rescuers finally arrived, Luis volunteered to be the last man to be hoisted in the rescue pods. He reached the surface 11 minutes after the first man.

His leadership kept all of his men positive, organized, and ALIVE.

I love this story. Not only for the inspiration but for the lessons it gives us.

Luis Urzua demonstrated status.

The Journal of Psychology of Sexuality found that women prefer men with status.

This is based on evolutionary psychology where a high-status man can provide a better future for her and her offspring.

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One of the Biggest Indicators of Status is Leadership

The leader of a group of primates tends to have the highest status.

So how do you be a leader? And what if you have no one to lead?

There are 9 ways to be a leader that women will love even if you have no friends and no social status what so ever. So watch this video I provided to know how to apply each one of them in your life.

The last of the 9 is all about what to do specifically when you are with a beautiful woman so make sure to watch until the end because if you don’t do what I’m going to tell you then I can almost guarantee she will lose interest and attraction in you.

Stay tuned for more content, man. Cheers!

You can also check out my online course here.

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